How To Find Your Wedding Style

May 7, 2025

Let’s be honest—how to find your wedding style can feel like a loaded question. With endless inspiration and opinions flying around, it’s easy to lose sight of what you actually love. But here’s the thing: your wedding style isn’t hiding. It’s already in your everyday preferences, your love story, and your vision of what feels right.

This post will walk you through the simple steps (and questions) to help you uncover a style that feels true to you two, not just a trend. Because when your wedding reflects who you are, everything else clicks into place.

ASK YOURSELVES THESE QUESTIONS

Not sure where to start? You’re not alone. Finding your wedding style isn’t about picking from a catalog—it’s about noticing what already lights you up. These prompts aren’t just questions. They’re little nudges to help you unlock the aesthetic that feels most you.

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  • What colors do you gravitate toward in your home or wardrobe?
    • Open your closet. Look at your living room. Are you more into soft neutrals, deep jewel tones, or pops of bold color? These preferences often reflect your natural design sense and can easily translate into your wedding palette.
  • Where do you feel happiest—outdoors, in a chic city space, at home, or somewhere else?
    • Picture your ideal Saturday. Are you hiking in the woods? Strolling through an art gallery downtown? Hosting friends in your backyard? Your happy place could help you imagine the perfect setting or vibe for your wedding day.

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  • What kind of music would be playing at your dream wedding?
    • A playlist says a lot about your style. Are you dancing to ‘90s throwbacks, slow jazz, indie folk, or EDM remixes? The sounds you love help shape the energy you want your celebration to carry.
  • Do you imagine a big party or something slow, sweet, and intimate?
    • Some couples want an all-night celebration with confetti cannons. Others want soft lighting, handwritten vows, and a long dinner with their favorite people. This question cuts to the heart of how you want your day to feel.
  • Are you drawn to timeless elegance or creative, quirky charm?
    • Flip through a few wedding photos or even fashion looks. Do you love structured silhouettes, black-and-white palettes, and classic fonts? Or are you swooning over vintage touches, and a little bit of whimsy? Both are beautiful, what matters is which one feels like you.

Now, write your answers down.

Don’t overthink. Go with your gut. What you’ll start to see is a pattern: a tone, a vibe, a style that keeps showing up. That’s your aesthetic calling. And the best part? Once you feel it, everything else starts making sense—from your venue to your florals to your outfits.

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EXPLORE TYPES OF WEDDING STYLES AND THEMES

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to weddings. Your day should reflect your personalities, not someone else’s Pinterest board. Here’s a closer look at some of the most-loved wedding styles to help spark ideas:

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Bride and groom with beach setting
  • Classic & Timeless:
    • If you love sophistication that never goes out of style, this is for you. Picture an elegant ballroom, shimmering chandeliers, crisp tuxedos, and a soft color palette of ivory, blush, or navy.
  • Boho & Natural:
    • Think flowy dresses, wildflower bouquets, macramé accents, and dried florals scattered across earthy backdrops. Boho weddings feel effortless and deeply connected to nature, with sunset ceremonies and barefoot dances under the stars.
  • Modern Minimalist:
    • Clean, sleek, and unfussy. Modern minimalist weddings focus on intentional beauty. Think simple architecture, monochromatic color schemes, structured wedding attire, and chic table scapes with minimal details.

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  • Romantic Garden:
    • A romantic garden wedding is filled with fresh blooms, soft pastels, and an enchanted energy. Imagine pastel wedding dresses for your spring wedding, overflowing floral arches, twinkle lights wrapped around trees, and the scent of roses.
  • Rustic Chic:
    • There’s something magical about blending cozy, country vibes with elegant touches. Rustic chic weddings often happen in barns, vineyards, or open fields with string lights, wood tables, and touches of lace.
  • Vintage Glam:
    • If you’ve ever dreamed of stepping onto an old Hollywood movie set, this one’s for you. Vintage glam weddings feature retro-inspired wedding dresses, antique decor, velvet accents, and gilded details.

Photos from: Loon Weddings

YOUR PINTEREST BOARD IS YOUR NEW BEST FRIEND

Groom's Tie With Small Flower Patterns

Pinterest is your wedding planning playground. We recommend creating a fresh board just for wedding style inspo. Save only the pins that give you that feeling. Don’t just pin because it’s pretty. Pin what makes you say, “That feels like us.”

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Need a head start? We’ve already done the work.

Follow us on Pinterest at @wedeverything for thousands of wedding inspiration ideas. From color palettes to decor setups to wedding attire that looks amazing, it’s all there—ready for you to explore freely.

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Bride Looking At Her Wedding Gown

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BRING YOUR WEDDING STYLE TO LIFE WITH WEDEVERYTHING

Once you’ve uncovered your wedding style, WedEverything makes it easy to bring your vision to life. Use our video tutorials, downloadable resources, and virtual venue tours to stay organized and inspired every step of the way. Ready to turn your ideas into reality? Explore WedEverything’s planning course here and start building a day that feels uniquely yours.

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Bride and her bridesmaids with their backs turned against the camera
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